Responding to children

Responding to Children

Some have said that in our fastpaced, overloaded, overstimulated world, emotional neglect is one of the biggest issues going on in our world, people are experiencing excessive amounts of pressure and anxiety in our culture, families, and comunity's more than any other time, raising healthy happy children needs to be intentional, with some help you can do it with just a few basic practiced truths. I like most parents have struggled to parent my children in a healthy way, not always succeeding, if this is you, you are normal, we understand! No one can respond to children with so much anxiety in their life.  

Responding includes growing in awarness of our children and their needs, listening to their heart, stories, and statements as they try to communicate with us, hidden communication is the deepth of who they really are, practicing listening this can not be done in chaos, or in a hurry. 

Once you here their heart you can nurture them with loving concepts and vocabulary that stabilize their emotions, help them feel calm and secure in your love. The concepts you learn here will help you have the relationship you with your child, with open communicatio that is tender and loving. This site will help get you started with only have a few simple truths to get you started.

Can you listen intentionally?

Can you learn to read between the lines of what your child is truly saying?

Can you nurture them though their thoughts feelings, and questions without over reacting to the hard stuff?

Are you willing to bring some structure to your life and home?

Can you listen?

Being intentional in listening really isnt hard i found it just takes a little bit of practise in getting your ears intune with your childs voice when they are saying something. of course with a family there is a bunch of random chatter going o, and thi is not what im talking about im talking about sentances that start with questions like, 'hey mom" 'guess what/, "today at school. Your children need you to listen, this is important! being tuned into these opprtunities is most important. This is your opportunity to spring into action, which means to set aside  out distractions for an eye to eye listen. and listen to your little one who is speaking, nothing else is as important is this conversation!

Can you read between the lines?

We write love letters like the different topiced letters you will see on this website. We know one letter won't cure the soul of a child but it will help, I thought it might be a good experience for your child to receive their own personal "Love Letter"

Mom maybe you need a love letter too? let me know.

Love

Kim Fenech

 Responding to Tough Topics

 Topics like: Stress, anxiety, and fighting. Fear, greif, divorce, cancer, where’s daddy,   bullies,  nobody likes me, autisum, gender and Trauma

no matter which difficult issue you are dealing with all people need quiet. Our children are growing up in a soup of confusion, misunderstanding, anger and anxiety and a host of mental health issues, each day a new national disaster (TURN IT OFF) we do not have the copassity for it, none of us. Turn off political speech in your home if you can, or at least tone it down! Caring for kids includes this, their lives are full of stress, presure, and performance. Parenting is a difficult task, tone down the noise and stress, respond to their needs, and you will see almost a suddent reaction .

Give you some simple tips on how to get through the day with your child. How to watch out for them in every environment even when you are not there. Who are your relatives and friends, do you want them to be around your children? are they safe? Do you trust them? How do you safeguard your children from bad actors. Whether at school home play. Neglecting their needs because of business will not help you protect them from the world around them.  Understanding and  learning to navigating tough topics will help you you travel through any difficult situation your childis having.

 I write love letters

Part of loving children is understanding who they are and how your specific child tics,  We hope some of the helpful  habits on this site will encourage you to learn more  about parenting as you and your child grow together.

Responding, Words Matter

Honey for the heart, if you want to nurture   and bond with your children  their heart is the door We have just the  words for you to do that! Maybe you had a cute nick name in your home. maybe your parent binked you on the nose as a sign of love or had a special sentance that conveyed love appreciation and care for you. Honey for a Childs heart is a page of loving words, sentances and stories. This is your love  language for you unique child  conving deep love and care for them. Finding just the right words for your relationship can be fun, watching your child respond to these personal Love words is one of the best things i know of in life. Choo se from a multitude of these words and staments, pick those you like that suit you. these words help to deepen bonds and nurture deep connects between you and your child. I will teach you a nurturing vocabulary, use it and find life.  

Words matter

Sometimes in heated moments you can pull out a word or phras that can even make you both laugh, life is short make it good by using a good vocabulary.