Divorce

THE LORD IS NEAR TO THE BROKEN HEARTED PSALM 34:18

Ms. Kim

When my dad left he told me he would see me alot, but he just missed my birthday party, its not the same any more. no one askd me if it was ok. i cry all the time, i dont know what to do, and my mom says i will feel better later but i know i wont, i don't want to go to school or do my home work or play with my friends, im going to run away.

Dear Troy,

Thank you for writting me, i understand what you are saying, you write really well. Missing your dad is normal because you love him. It is one of the hardest things to happen, even if your dad doesnt see you he still loves you! Your dad has difficult feeling about leaving too. It sounds like you are hurting troy,i believe the pain will lessen day by day. please dont run away, tell your mom your feelings i know she will listen to you. As you think about your dad remember all the good things you did with him, it will remind you about how much he loves you. i have a few suggestions for you that some children said helped them when one of their parents left.

Parent points

Divorce is painful for everyone, but expecially children, here are the facts. Pycologists say that divored affects all children at every age but is more traumatic for 3-15 year olds, This site is dedicated to helping children move through this process by teaching you nurture nurture, use good listening skills, and responding with an nurturing vocabulary for soothing broken hearts.

Plan what ypu will say and tell the child togerther if you can, be prepared to Protect your child from your hurt or anger, tell them you love them and always will. tell your children whats happening, better sooner than later. allow time for the family to process . use nurturing words even though there will most likly be upset and tears, all children react differently accourding to their age. Tell the children what will change and what will stay the same, where your partner will be living and if possible how you will still see them.

Cildren are typically caught off guard even if they sense things are not going well,

Develope a non blamming naritive, avoid the temptation to asign blame, even if you feel your child needs to know the truth, like mom had an afair, or dad doesnt love us any more. leave that for another discussion when you are less hurt., bu tsoon with hopefuuly better language, but do tell them why this is happening.as genlty as you can.

Although you do not want to give personal nature or details give a general over view.

Understand your child may react in many different ways not eating, anger, trouble sleeping and not wanting to do anything, tell them you understand, when the time is right set them back on their daily schedule this can give then a sense of peace,

Allow the process to contuinue and be there to listen and and validate their feelings.accourding to their age, depression and with drawal, irritable and verbal, listen with a tender heart, understand thet they may feel the same way you do but act differently. There will be a long process ahead of you but you can help your child by thanking them for telling you their feelings, reassure them that you are not leaving and you will work things out together.

Take care of your self, speak to some one you trust. That way you will be better able to respond to their hurt. Write me a letter and I will write you back. Write me a letter and I will write you back.

Love

Kim

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All children need a stable home, love, and respect. In the last four years all of us have struggled to live in a constantly changing world we have become more stressful than ever before. Statistics show a skyrocketing increase in the incidents of children's physical, mental, and emotional issues in their homes, schools, and emergency rooms, producing unstable and emotionally wounded children. anxietyand and anger are commomn place in our homes.

Maybe you understand the hurts of childhood, or maybe you didn't recognise them wanting to move on. We typically raise our children the way we were raised without even knowing it. If you are a wounded child there is help. If youwant to grow in understanding yourself and your children this site is for you, you can suceed and become the parent you have always wanted to be. Most parents want to help their child be stable loving people but are un equipped! This site is short and simple with sturdy one page topics and good basic teaching that will change you and your child for the better! Topics pertaining to Responding, Listening, Nurturing, and speaking using good Words, and Vocabulary (See Honey for a Childs Heart page)

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