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HE WILL SHEILD YOU WITH HIS WINGS, THEY WILL PROTECT YOU, HIS FAITHFUL PROMISEE ARE YOUR ARMOR Psalm 91:4

Ms. Kim

This is sally, I am 9 yeras old. I go to the Martins school everyday and there is no one who likes me. call medaddy long legs because im tall.. They all play with each other but not me. My mom says i have to be nicer , but i am nice and they still dont care. I eat lunch by my self. i think they like being mean, i am s o sad, what can i do to make them like me. i dont get invited to birthday parties or sleep overs. Is there something wrong with me? Help me ms. Kim. I am alone all the time.

Cindy

Dear sweet Cindy,

Thank you for writting me Cindy, you have nice hand writting. I understand what you said. Some children can be very mean, feeling alone without friends must be hard. You have tried being nice but it doesnt help. i am sure you are a nice girl, Im sorry things feel so bad. I like you and i will be your friend. Some children say it helped if they drew a picture that told how they feel,are feeling. or talked to your mom about it. Sometimes our parents can talk to the teacher and find something for us to do during recess, this can help. Also you could pick a hobby and join a club where other children attend and you could make friends there. If you would like to write me again i would really like that your friend

Ms. Kim

Parent Points

As chldrens experiencesChildren first learn moral values from their families how you treat your children and teach them how to treat others is formost for success in friendships. expand beyond home and in to the neighborhood and into the play ground peer relationships become more important. The friends they meet and play with exert alots of influence on your child How well our children get along with peers greatly affects their self concepts and and happiness. Nice neighborhoods do not always produce happy children. Family is where children develope moral values, what they experience in their homes will carry into their friendships. How they are treated will help them learn how to be good friends with others.

Children want to fit in with peers, as they test their boundries they will need gentle guidance to keep them on track, teaching is an on going job of a parent, your child will wheather storms much easier if you can talk them out with them.

Watching our children gorw can be a real gift, parents do well if they

stay intune with their childs life. Is it a hard day or are they tired. Check in with them everyday. let them tell their stories to you, listen with your eyes and heart, looking at them. Have fun with this but encourage honesty in hard things as well, first comfort your child and thank them for telling you. If you over react or become angry it might be a while until they open up to you again.

If you do not know what to do next speak with the teacher to see how you can come up with a PLAN that helps. Words and suport go along way. do not let your child go through these relatonships alone, that is truly said.

Parent, grand parent, gaurden

Have you ever wondered how God changes people? Maybe it seems like old habits never change no matter how hard you try. Maybe you have become discouraged in your lack of growth into Christ likeness. You know you are forgiven because of the cross, and you realize you are totally accepted by God on that basis. This is wonderful. And yet your desire to live more like God some how constantly falls short. God desires to transform our souls, this transformation occurs as we recognise that God created us to live in an interactive relationship with Him.. Our task is not to transform ourselves but to stay connected with God in as much of life as possible, as we pay attention to His Spirit in our lives we naturally and slowly become more like Him, which takes a life time. Our job is to do the connecting and God does the perfecting.

Jan Johnson

Every healthy parent wants their child to experience love and suceed in life. The single most important thing you can do for your child is to give them a firm foundation for life. God loves you and your child specifically by name, God wants your child to know Him, to be loved by Him, and learn to love others. To know God relationally as a friend, to know He will always be there to help them through the ups and downs of life. Train up a child in the way they should go and when they are old they will not depart from it.

Proverbs 22:6

All children need a stable home, love, and respect. In the last four years all of us have struggled to live in a constantly changing world we have become more stressful than ever before. Statistics show a skyrocketing increase in the incidents of children's physical, mental, and emotional issues in their homes, schools, and emergency rooms, producing unstable and emotionally wounded children. anxietyand and anger are commomn place in our homes.

Maybe you understand the hurts of childhood, or maybe you didn't recognise them wanting to move on. We typically raise our children the way we were raised without even knowing it. If you are a wounded child there is help. If youwant to grow in understanding yourself and your children this site is for you, you can suceed and become the parent you have always wanted to be. Most parents want to help their child be stable loving people but are un equipped! This site is short and simple with sturdy one page topics and good basic teaching that will change you and your child for the better! Topics pertaining to Responding, Listening, Nurturing, and speaking using good Words, and Vocabulary (See Honey for a Childs Heart page)

Love, Kim Fenech

The statements, formates and information on this site is for educational purposes only and does not substitute for professional medical advice. Please see your regulare Dr. or counseliing professional.

Love Letters to Children

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