Words matter

                    The gift of words

 Practice giving your child the gift of nurturing words.  ugly can cut like a knife and do real damage to a child's heart. The gift of words will help your child grow into the child  they were created to be, full of life and joy. Full of loving kindness, generous and emotionally stable. 

Every child deserves a healthy world full of peace and loving words. Parent do you remember any words that were spoken to you as a child that hurt? 

Words can change the course of a child's life, without a loving vocabulary children can wither on the vine, we see them every day.   

I want you to experience the joy of parenting by equipping yourself with a vocabulary that will warm your heart as you give the words that are like honey for the heart to your child, then watch a light shine, emanating from their heart., you will experience the joy of knowing you are nurturing your child heart you are doing a good job. Words matter.

 Children can get through a tough life it there one person someone who loves them tenaciously and learns how to nurture and care for their child.  There is a vocabulary that works even when they need some discipline.

                                Listening

are you really listening or are you on your cell, t.v. or busy cleaning up. Most parents are doing the best they can living in these challenging times, some.

Mom, dad, If you get some one to listen to you about what matters your children will also benefit. If you are more peacful your children will experience peace in their lives as well. Children need a lot of acceptance and assurance to get them through the day.  

You matter, try and find some peace in your life so you have the brain and heart space to nurture othe own uring vocabulary can change your life as well  as your child's forever, start with one or two new words, memorize these words

A new vocabulary will help you build up your child. watch how they stabilize. Peace in the home is a major factor in a childs self worth, behavioral issues worsen when anger and chaos permeate the house, where harsh words are spoken.

if you apply this knowlege and you do not see a change consifder getting some help. start with their dr. If the problem is you, you  will need a councilor to help you as well. Most churches have free counciling.

                              Responding

Children seem to be talking all the time, are we really hearing what they are saying? it will take some skill to read between the lines, especially when they are young and dont have the exact vocabulary of words or names of feelings. Watch their body language as they speak, you can get descern from their demeanor  that way if your paying attention you will catch it. 

Be prepared, be ready, make time in your life to listen to them Just like we need eyes in the back of our head we need super sonic ears. when your child speaks listen for clues for what they are excited about,  what they are telling you, let them tell the story, don't but in, budinsky:) 

Thank them for telling you their story, respect their words. wait until they are finished, if you need to disingage Remind them before you get busy, that you need to focus for a little while because your doing something but you will listen again when your finished with your project. ask them to work on something while they wait. Then dont forget to come back to them, im ready to listen again.

Words Matter

Positive words of encouragement for rkids can be a powerful tool and make a huge difference into a chiolds out look to build resilance, over come challenfes and more,

children of all ages need to be encurage regularly and encouraging words is a way to do that. 

A word about a task the are performing or even struggling withit could also be praise when they are doing well

When children feel good about themsleves they are more likely to have a positive attitude about them selves and how thwy will succed in the things they will do.y have done,

On theis site we will go through a couple hundred of words phrases and staments you can choose to incorporate into your family language, start with two then move forward as you learn others.

Ex. fpocus on the effort not the talent avoid over praisingbe specific in the positive phrase you will use. 

Try these Words

You made my day

you make me smile,

you are smart

your so strong

Your so kind

Being a parent is my favorite job

I am so proud of you

i am proud of the person you are

i have fun spending time with you

I think about you all the time

what you say matters

show me that smile again

 i miss you when your away

Pick a fww fo this words and use them when ever you want.

Catch your child doing what they are suposed to be doing ans you can say, see your great at that.

You can do anything when you put your mind to it

you are improving because you didn't give up

look how much your hard work paind off

you are so brave

Words that make your child feel loved

At night when you tuck your children in do they ever say, i do something wrong? or kiss me again mommy.  at night they may say come lay with me. are you listen, they need reassrance aND LOVE.they need rasurance

These are the moments you can give them a big old taste of verbal Honey.

Here are just a few

Butter flies have wings so they can fly fish have gills so they can swim, i have a heart so i can love you.

no one is mad at you, im here with you now.

See the stars, i made a wish one you and I got you

Where ever you go my love is with you

I hug you and kiss you and tell you i love you because you  are special to me, your my only red head boy! have some fun with it. me with joy

Playing with you is the happiest moments of my day. i love you smile

You are the best gift i ever received there is no love deeper and truer than the love i have for you

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